Couple in Love

Bassy Lee

Associate Marriage and Family Therapist

(AMFT #122672)

Supervised by Dr. Harry Motro, PsyD, LMFT 

(License #53452)


While being married can be a lovely and beautiful experience, it can also be tough and challenging. My passion is to work with couples and families to renew, repair, and rebuild relationships that can be satisfying and lasting. My desire is to help struggling and hurting couples and families understand the underlying issues and patterns that hinder them from thriving. I enjoy working with couples in all stages for holistic healing, healthier communication and conflict resolution, and better coping with stress and grief/loss.

My Story

I grew up in a family and culture that does not encourage seeking help from others because it is perceived as a sign of weakness. However, seeking help at the right time is actually a strength because pain and mistakes can be avoided. After college, I worked as an occupational therapist and found myself falling in love in the helping profession. I am frequently drawn to couples work in my social circle. While exploring my second career path, I want to formalize my experience in couples counseling to help people outside my social circle. I am willing to commit myself in this meaningful work and share not only my knowledge and skill but also my experience in the ups and downs of marriage and life.


Being married for more than 20 years and a mother of three teenagers,  I understand  the unhealthy cycle in marriage as well as the emotional struggles in parenting.

Besides couples and families, I have also extensively worked with children, adolescents, and young adults from all walks of life and diverse cultural backgrounds; helping them find their voices, passions, dreams, and purposes in life.  With my life experience, healthcare background, and professional training, I am good at facilitating a process that stirs positive life change.

​​Areas of Practice:  couples & family relationships, pre-marital, parent-child conflict, anxiety with somatic symptoms, loneliness, depression, trauma, grief/loss, communication/social skills, self-image, self-identity, burnout, life transitions, midlife crisis, codependency, cultural issues, women issues, postpartum, spiritual formation.                 

Types of Client:  couples, adults, children, adolescents, professionals, healthcare workers, church leaders


Therapeutic Approach

For couples therapy, I do not take side but offer a therapeutic process for my clients to rekindle their love and reflect on the deeper issues that affect the marital relationship and the family dynamics.  In addition to emotion-focused couples therapy, I also utilize various psychotherapeutic approaches such as family systems, somatic therapy, solution-focused, trauma-informed, and neuro-psychological theories.  I consistently offer a safe, supportive, and therapeutic connection with each individual/family.  Because of my bi-cultural background, I am able to embrace each individual's story and strengths and tailor interventions to the needs of each of my clients.


  • Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Counseling, Western Seminary, San Jose, CA

  • ​Master of Divinity, Fuller Theological Seminary, Pasadena, CA

  • ​Bachelor of Science in Occupational Therapy, Minor in Psychology, San Jose State University, San Jose, CA



    Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts (SYMBIS)​

Affiliation and Membership


Feeling stuck? Are you at a crossroad in your marriage, family relationships, or personal growth? Even the strongest among us can feel lost, unsure, ambivalent, or unhappy at times.  I can help you understand and manage whatever life throws at you, and how to do it successfully. I believe that you have the strength not just to survive, but to truly thrive.


"Love Never Fails."

1 Corinthians 13:8

How can I help?
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When are you available?
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Phone:   (408) 622-9211


Video Telehealth Link:

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LOCATION     (Due to COVID-19, sessions are conducted through telehealth.)

The office is located in the Chantel Building:​  3880 S. Bascom Ave., Suite 111, San Jose, CA  95124


​The building is near the intersection of Highway 85 and Bascom Ave, half a mile from Good Samaritan Hospital. The driveway for the building is next to the Bascom Donuts sign.


PARKING:  Finding a parking spot can be difficult.  Please allow for extra time.  You are permitted to park under the building.

ARRIVAL:  Please go to Suite 111.  At our scheduled time, I will come to the lobby and meet you.

If you are in crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, a free, 24-hour hotline at 1.800.273.8255. If your issue is an emergency, call 911 or go to your nearest emergency room. If you need local crisis intervention/support in the Bay Area, check out Bay Area Suicide Crisis & Intervention Alliance (BASCIA) online. I do not offer crisis counseling or emergency sevices. 

Bassy Lee is a Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist  at Couples Recovery Center and is supervised by Dr. Harry Motro, a Couple Counselor, and is an employee of Harry Motro, Psy.D., Marriage and Family Therapist, P.C., which is a Professional Corporation. Couples Recovery Center provides specialized couples counseling and includes the following professionals:


The recommendations on this website do not constitute professional advice, substitute for professional treatment, or establish a therapeutic relationship.



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